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Kaz on - Body Language - Love
Body Language - Love
Body Language - Love, secret body codes, attraction levels, love signs
What does your body language tell others about you and you about others? Your body language reveals secret codes, attraction levels, love signs and also who is a love cheat but that's not all ......
As a professional psychic medium of over 40 years, the mainstay of my work has been concerning offering practical, sensible, down-to-earth guidance and advice, as well as offering sensible, practical down-to-earth solutions to all of your life, love, marital, work related, health and career relationship problems, and the heartbreak that goes with the breakdown of marriages, love and close personal relationships, civil partnerships, and family relationships.
Sometimes, we are so caught up in the whirlwind of love relationships, the depth of feelings and emotions that we experience, all of which sometimes transcends us above what is transmitting in our body language, which holds vital clues as to how each of us really feel. No wonder it hurts then, when we miss the clearly seen signals in body language, and as a result become shocked when things don't work out!
What Happens When You Fall in Love ....
When you fall in love, a variety of hormones race around your brain and body. Among these is a hormone known as dopamine. It is the one that gives you that initial romantic sensation, euphoric excitement, and an intense craving for the object of your love.
In the initial stage, feelings of unworthiness and fear may set in, making you feel shy and insecure, try to resist letting such feelings get the better of you. You fear disappointment and embarrassment that the person you love may not reciprocate your feelings. Often this tendency stems from events in your past, such as your childhood, or early adult life, or even in past lives, and the only way in which these negative neural triggers can be resolved so that they do not continue to kick in and ruin what would otherwise be perfect, soul mate or lasting relationships is to have us remote view to find out what these base causes of present day relationship problems are, and mind script you so that they do not activate. This is part of our very specialist work, undertaken on your behalf. The results are positively life changing and lasting, leading to a far more secure and happier life and love life. Our work is designed to empower you toward positive beneficial change and banish negative tendencies and patterns of destructive and self destructive behavior.
So, how do these translate into body language?
These emotional experiences cause involuntary physiological reactions and unconscious behavioral tendencies. They manifest themselves as the body language of falling in love.
The Involuntary Physiological Reactions to Love’s Emotional Experiences .....
Falling in love causes the body to release a flood of feel-good hormones, which trigger specific involuntary and uncontrollable physiological responses. This is seen particularly in the facial area as countenance glow and dilated eye pupils. That lovely 'wide eyed look', you can't miss it!
That certain and special Glow .....
This wonderful fuzzy feeling called love creates a sense of well-being and exuberant health. That is why someone in love seems to spring into bloom, like a flower in spring, and exudes a glowing aura of health and happiness on his countenance.
While it could at first be stressful, falling in love still possesses a strong and overall stress-reducing potential, as love regulates the autonomic nervous system.
Dilated Pupils .....
When a person in love looks at the person he fancies, his eye pupils dilate. They seem to be attempting to focus on every feature of the loved one, as if trying to see as much of him as possible. The reason for this, really, is adrenaline, a hormone the body releases whenever one is excited or afraid.
Love’s Unconscious Behavioral Tendencies ....
Love’s body language is visible in a person’s facial expression, vocal intonation, body posture, and other bodily movements. A person in love is usually unaware of these tendencies showing, I guess this is what makes things so challenging and also interesting at the same time!
Gender Commonalities ......
There are certain unconscious body behaviors common to both men and women in love.
Most people love their personal space, and do not want it to be invaded. However, when falling in love, they intensely desire to be close each other. They want to stand or sit closer together than normal. They forget about their personal space.
As if that were not enough, their torsos tend to lean in the direction of the other. They face each other directly, shoulders parallel to one another and toes pointed towards the other. One leg may be placed in a more advanced position than the other, as if ready to walk towards the other person.
Someone in love tends to smile longer and more frequently to a point of grinning happily. There is also that tendency to laugh more, and more often, in the company of his loved one.
It is normal for a shy person’s eye contact to be brief in the beginning of courtship. Later on, eye contact becomes slightly longer than usual, with eyes more aflame.
Someone in love will unconsciously mirror the other’s body postures, repositioning himself to be in synch with the other. When the other leans forward, he leans forward as well. If the other rests her hand on her chin, he follows. In all respects, any person in tune with the person he is speaking to uses his body in a similar fashion to the other.
Someone in love always fails to see the very apparent faults of his loved one. The reason for this is that love deactivates the neural network in the brain associated with critical social assessment of other people. Do you now understand why “love is blind”?
Gender Differences ....
You will observe differences in the way a man in love and a woman in love expresses their feelings through body language.
The look of love
Man in Love ....
When a man in love makes eye contact at his girl, he stares directly and deeply into her eyes for as long as possible.
He touches her protectively, possessively, and romantically. He takes every opportunity to take her hand and interweave his fingers with hers.
He may also tuck his girl’s hair behind her ears, and place his hand on the small of her back.
In his attempt to impress the girl with his looks, he starts fixing his tie, smoothes his shirt, or runs his fingers through his hair. He stands up tall and straight in the presence of his loved one, and flexes his muscles in a show of masculinity and underlying strength.
Some, for reasons I do not know, occasionally play with one of their ear lobes.
If you are a woman, and you want to know if a guy is interested in you, I encourage you to read the article Five Simple Ways to Read a Man’s Body Language of Love.
Woman in Love .....
Perhaps because of her less aggressive and more romantic nature, the woman in love often looks at her man with a sidelong glance. However, a more aggressive woman will wink at the man of her desire.
A woman in love unconsciously points her knee towards her man, as she crosses her legs.
She strokes her hair, or plays with a lock of hair. She flicks or flings her hair over her shoulder, or continually tucks it behind her ears.
She links her arm in that of the man, or puts her hand on the back of his neck.
She wipes imaginary dust off the man’s clothes.
She touches or massages her neck frequently. Especially when flirting, she unconsciously lifts her head to expose more of her neck.
She pouts her lips, or parts or licks them, and bats her eyelashes.
Accurate Decoding of Body Language Signs .....
Beware! Body language signs are not conclusive, and could be unreliable if incorrectly interpreted. They are never to be construed in isolation but always in reference to relevant extraneous factors. Here is how you can decode these signs accurately.
Establish their meanings in the context of the relevant present situation. Interpret them in reference to a cluster of other related gestures of the other person. Evaluate them in relation to what the other person is saying. Assess them for consistency with how the other person normally behaves. Filter them for cultural influences (for example, looking at another straight in the eye while conversing carries different connotations in different cultures).
Falling in love can be a very delightful experience. However, if you are unclear about how the other person feels about you, it could be tricky and heartbreaking.
It is always, therefore, to your advantage to learn how to read the signs of body language. Your knowledge can apply not only to the realm of love but also to other important aspects of your life, like business and social relationships.
Since we spend most of our social life communicating, understanding what the other person really means can be deduced to a broader extent and with greater accuracy from the language of his body.
So what other vital signs we need to look out for?
Well here are some ....
Signals that men need to know:
What does it mean when a woman flicks her hair?!
(1) When women make a point of tossing or flicking their hair:
If you are talking to a woman and she flicks her hair, this definitely means she's into you. But if you're the one watching and she's done it toward someone else, well, better luck next time, she is more into them than into you. You'll be surprised at how common hair flick and head toss is. Even women with short hair do it all the time. It's a woman's way to show she cares about how she looks and wants to impress her man, sounds crazy but it is true!
(2) When women starts to fiddle with a round object:
Snow it sounds like something you might see in a corny television programme, but it's true. If a woman is fondling a phallic-shaped object such as the stem of a wine glass or a dangling earring and giving you repeated glances, then be sure that she finds you attractive. It also means she's approachable.
(3) When women start to unconsciously touch themselves:
This is body language at the most basic level. Watch for a woman slowly stroking her neck, throat or thigh. If a man plays his cards right, then he may get to touch her in the same way.
(4) When women take to pointing at their knees:
When you see a woman sitting with one leg tucked up under her, chances are that the knee pointing outwards is pointing towards the person she finds the most interesting. Hope that is you. If she's wearing a dress or skirt, it can offer a fleeting glimpse of an exposed thigh to anyone who's looking — preferably the person of interest.
(5) When women put their face on display:
A woman who is trying to attract a man's attention, with elbows resting on a surface, will place one hand on top of the other, then place her chin on her hands and face directly to him as is she is offering it to him for admiration. It is an extremely feminine gesture, and an intimate one, as it also allows the woman to lean in towards the man. It also indicates that he has her full attention, and is open to flattery, flirtation and advances.
Signals that women need to know:
But for women, there is a comparative lack of male courtship signals. Men don't play a courtship game, They only respond to it.
Girls, watch out for the following and scout out your man:
(1) When men have protruding thumbs:
Thumbs are prominent in many hand gestures, as they represent strength of character and the ego. A man will use protruding thumbs, in front or back pockets, around women to whom he is attracted.
(2) When men display their crotch:
Every woman reading this knows at least one man who sits with his legs spread wide at her, like he is taking her photograph. The crotch display is effectively putting a man's masculinity on show, his feet are planted firmly on the ground, with his legs apart, displaying the crotch, and letting whoever is observing know that he's not going anywhere.
(3) When their fingers point to what he wants you to notice:
When a man's thumbs are tucked into his belt or into the tops of the pockets to frame the genital area, it indicates a sexually aggressive attitude. This gesture shows to a woman that "I am ready for action". He has unwittingly given away what's on his mind.
(4) When men try hard:
To make them look more appealing, men will unconsciously arrange their clothing. They will straighten their tie, brush imaginary dust off their shoulder and adjusts their trousers. His mind says, 'I want to look my best for you' and his body responds accordingly.
(5) When men take up space:
A man will put his hands on his hips to occupy as much space as possible to become more noticeable. He may even start to rock back and forth on the soles of his feet as if he was making love in a standing position. When it comes to male courtship signals, women often ask, 'For men, is it always about sex?' Disappointingly for many women, the answer is 'yes'.
Body language tips for men:
(1) If a woman slowly crosses and uncrosses her legs then she is into you. If not, her legs would stay firmly in place.
(2) If a woman has put her handbag close to you, she likes you. But if she has just clutched it tightly, bugger off.
(3) If a woman has her legs together and body facing away, buddy, you are going home alone tonight.
Body language tips for women:
(1) When a man is wearing tight-fitting trousers, small-size Speedos or dangling the long end of a belt or a bunch of keys in front of their crotch, it means they're putting their masculinity on display. It's the same as a woman with a push-up bra.
(2) When a man puts his hands in his pocket, it means they are closed-off.
(3) When a man mirrors a woman's facial expressions, she'll think he is caring and attractive.
(1) Jiggling feet is a sign of boredom.
(2) Locked ankles show negative emotions.
(3) Extended blinking, covering their mouth, rubbing eyes all mean the person is lying.
The body language in a man that says he wants to know everything about YOU!
Ladies watch out for these signs too!:
10 signs he's in love with you:
1. He'll change his plans to be with you:
He will drop his plans or whatever he’s doing to help you, or be with you. This signals that you are a priority and his care and concern centres around you.
2. He makes it known you're important to him
He makes it known to you that you are important to him. This can be in a variety of ways: he could say it, but he could also show it by appreciating you, appreciating the things he knows are important to you, responding to calls, texts and emails quickly and lovingly, and integrating you into his daily life.
3. He includes you in his social life
He introduces you to his family, and circle of friends. More than once. He is affectionate with you in front of them and uses “we” a lot. It’s a big deal to integrate a new partner into your life, your close circle and your loved one, so if he’s gone beyond the initial introduction and including you in his social life with people who are meaningful, then it’s very likely love, or on it’s way to love.
4. He talks about his hopes and dreams for the future with you
He discusses future plans together. Not just about your relationship, but shares his dreams for the future. If he considers you part of his future, then you can tell it’s serious. But you can also tell if his feelings are deepening if he talks about his hopes and dreams for the future generally, and wants to share them with you. He wants you to know him and that increases intimacy and love.
5. He values your opinion
He seeks your opinion on matters that are personal and values the opinion you share. In a true partnership, both partners will value one another’s perspectives, wisdom and opinions. If he is doing this, then you’re in his heart and mind.
6. He does things he may not enjoy, simply because it makes you happy
He does things he make not like very much, but knows you like, and that’s important enough for him. Love is often a choice, to extend yourself for and towards another person. If your man does things for you that you know he’d never choose himself, whether it’s a big or a little thing, it’s probably love.
7. He listens to you
He doesn't’t just lust you but also listens to you. You can tell love is happening when he’s just as happy (or almost) talking with you and building your connection outside the bedroom as spending every minute together taking one another’s clothes off.
8. He's by your side looking after you when you're sick
He takes care of you if you’re sick. Men aren’t always known for being the best nurses, but if his nurturing and caring instincts kick in when you’re sick and he asks what you need, and genuinely wants to do what he can for you, then you know he thinks you’re pretty special.
9. He's interested in knowing everything about you
He wants to know everything about you, wants to meet your family, get to know your friends, and is deeply interested in your life, thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams. If he’s really falling in love with you, he will be intensely interested in everything about you and your world.
10. He makes an effort
He’s romantic with you – which doesn't’t necessarily mean chocolates, cuddles and flowers, but rather means he makes the effort and time to find out what’s meaningful to you as a woman to be desired and adored, and then does that with his own thought and flair. And to top it all off, he tells you he loves you.
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